How To Let Your Partner Know What You Want
One question that is asked often is how to tell your partner that you don’t enjoy what he or she is doing and want to suggest a way to improve a technique without causing offence. This can be a tentative subject to approach but can be done in a number of ways to avoid sexual embarrassment or conflict.
As with all good sex, the key is in communication. Talking about your desires and being open about your sexual fantasies. Approaching certain subjects may cause offence but the majority of fantasies can be fulfilled by most couples in their home.
Find Your Partner’s Pleasure
Relax and open discussions about your sex life and how you would like to improve it. Don’t be shy. If you have exchanged bodily fluids with someone then talking to them shouldn’t be too hard. Asking your partner what his or her sexual fantasies are is one of the easiest ways to open the conversation. Let them make the suggestions and lead the way in the conversation.
Finding out more about your partner’s sexual pleasures and personal fantasies can lead to far better sex between you. The more you discuss your own sex life the more you will learn about your partner and yourself.
If there is something that you don’t enjoy, rather than telling your partner that they are doing it all wrong ask them to do something different. For example, if you feel your partner is too rough when playing with your breasts or balls whisper in their ear to be gentle as that would turn you on more.
Oh Yes, Just There, I Love That
Oral sex or handjobs can be vastly improved for you with a guiding hand, show your partner what brings you most pleasure and a few words of encouragement can make all the difference. The guiding hand on the cock or pussy or those few words will bring out the sexual pleasure you want. When they do something you love, tell them.
Sexual adventures can be fun when shared. Acting out on your fantasies or your partners will only serve to improve your sex life and using your sex talk as foreplay can heighten the mood for a fun time together. Don’t you feel better when your partner has an orgasm as well?
